War Resister Rally in Toronto


We are a binational gay couple living in Toronto formerly in NJ, USA. We struggled for 6 years just to remain together. In early 2006 we were inspired to apply for residency in Canada because we yearned to be free, equal and safe from the tyranny of the right. This blog will be a mix of our immigration process, our daily lives and topics of interest like politics and religion.


I see Barack Obama is moving to the center, the same tactic under Clinton that brought on the Defense of Marriage Act and Don't Ask Don't Tell upon our lives. Also the unregulated corporate graft and rich getting richer policies we still encounter today.
Mom and Dad's visit was great and went by way too fast. The week flew by. We showed them many city spots, Allan Gardens, Ashbridge Bay, The Beach, The Toronto Islands, Casa Loma. Emi also took them to The Distillery and The Science center as I recovered from strep throat.
I was surprised how much their visit affected me afterwards. For a brief period I was inconsolable. I am usually not much of a crier but boy did the water works really kick in. It doesn't hit you how much you miss people until you see them again. So the rest of the week for me I was blue.
Then Pride Toronto hit!
Yesterday we went to the Dyke March with Lisa and some of her friends. It's a mini version of the big parade today. The city is buzzing and Emilio and I are amazed how well organized Toronto is with this weekend long event. Streets are completely closed, the flow is much better than the New York Prides we've been to, plus it's 3 full days of pride events with free shows on stages all over the village. We saw the Toronto Men's Chorus, Mel C (Spice Girl) from a distance (we got kicked out because we had our Pride Pup Katie with us) also some killer drag shows like Divinesque. All of this is FREE!
I had a one bad moment. This woman had Henna Tattoos on her hands and was talking to her friends with her hands wide out trying to dry. Her hand brushed my shorts smearing her tattoo and my shorts at the same time. She screamed "UGH!", so I yelled "Ugh!" back. She then tells me in an outraged voice "I spent $30 on that Henna!" (as if it was my fault). Well my Jersey Boy flew out and I said. "Then you should keep your hands to yourself" Her jaw dropped as we walked away laughing. You can take the boy out of jersey but you can't take the Jersey out of the boy. I need to act more Canadian. :)
In true Tom and Emi fashion we were home before 11pm. Such party animals.
Today is the big parade but the weather is looking shitty. We will enjoy it just the same. Afterwards we have our friend Kim's annual pride party and our neighbour Suhail's party later on. We hope to meet the guys...Mike, Doug, Rich, Mason, Nick, Lee, Jason...etc along the way.
Today my wonderful parents are arriving for a week long visit. This is the longest I have ever gone without seeing them in person. (It's only been 6 months) but it feel much longer because we are used to seeing them on an almost weekly basis.
We're here almost 6 months and and Emilio is having a very hard time finding a job. He's applying all over the place and networking where ever he can, but he's not having any luck. So those coming after us, save as much as you can before coming, try to secure employment prior to arrival, start your networking as soon as possible.
Canada Lawmakers Ask Harper to Let War Resisters Stay (Update2)
I am amazed at the stupidity of Conservative America. They're insane lemmings with the world view of a dung beetle, moving their political excrement from one stupid fake outrage to another. (see Obama's Auschwitz issue this week as another example). This is ridiculous, pathetic and kinda funny at the same time. Next time someone asks me why the US is going down the tubes. I am going to say, "Rachael Ray's Scarf!"